On Refraining from Disobedience
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The religion is divided into two parts:
- Refraining from disobedience (more serious and important).
- Performing acts of obedience.
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True sincerity lies in abandoning one’s desires and evil appetites.
- The true emigrant: One who abandons sins.
- The true warrior: One who fights his passions.
THE SINS COMMITTED WITH THE LIMBS
1. GENERAL ADVICE ON THE LIMBS
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Each part of your body is entrusted to you by Allah Most High.
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Using these limbs to disobey Allah is the ultimate betrayal and ingratitude.
- “Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is answerable for his flock” (Bukhārī).
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On the Day of Judgment, the limbs will testify against you:
- “Their mouths will be sealed, and their hands will speak to Us, and their feet will testify as to what they have earned” (Qur’an 36:65).
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Seven gates of Hell correspond to sins committed by seven parts of the body:
- The eye
- The ear
- The tongue
- The stomach
- The private part
- The hand
- The foot
2. THE EYE
- The eye is created to seek guidance in darkness, see the wonders of creation, and reflect on Allah’s signs.
- Protect your eye from:
- Looking at someone marriageable (with lust).
- Looking at beautiful forms with a lustful gaze.
- Looking at a Muslim with disdain or arrogance.
- Seeking out the faults of others.
3. THE EAR
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The ear was created to hear the speech of Allah, His Messenger, and the wisdom of the righteous.
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Protect it from:
- Listening to falsehood, backbiting, and lewd talk.
- Hearing the faults of others.
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Hadith:
- “The listener shares [in sin] with the speaker” (Ṭabarānī).
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If you use the ear for disobedience, what was meant as a blessing will turn into a reason for destruction.
4. THE TONGUE
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The tongue is the most dangerous limb and causes the most destruction.
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The Prophet ﷺ said:
- “People are not thrown into Hell on their faces for anything more than the harvest of their tongues” (Tirmidhī).
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Protect your tongue from eight calamities:
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Lying
- Lying erodes trust and reputation.
- “How despicable it is to lie!” Reflect on how you feel when others lie.
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Breaking a Promise
- Breaking promises is hypocrisy.
- If forced to promise, do so with caution and only if necessary.
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Backbiting (Ghibah)
- Definition: Mentioning something about a person in their absence that they would dislike.
- Backbiting makes you a wrongdoer, even if what you say is true.
- Indirect backbiting is also sinful, such as saying:
- “May Allah rectify him; I’m saddened by his actions.”
- Qur’an:
- “Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would truly despise that” (Qur’an 49:12).
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Argumentation and Debate
- Avoid disputing unnecessarily; it creates arrogance and enmity.
- Hadith: “Whoever leaves a quarrel while in the wrong, Allah will build him a house on the outskirts of Paradise; and if he leaves it while in the right, Allah will build him a house in the highest part of Paradise” (Tirmidhī).
- Satan deceives by presenting argumentation as truth.
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Ascribing Goodness to Oneself
- Avoid self-praise, for it reduces your esteem.
- Allah says: “Do not ascribe goodness to yourselves; He is more knowing of the God-fearing” (Qur’an 53:32).
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Cursing
- Do not curse people, animals, or food.
- On the Day of Judgment, you will be held accountable for every curse uttered.
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Supplicating Against Creation
- Do not pray against others, even if they wrong you. Leave the matter to Allah.
- “The oppressed one prays against his oppressor until he takes his right”.
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Jesting, Ridiculing, and Mocking People
- Mockery creates hatred and distances people.
- “When they pass by idle talk, they pass by with dignity” (Qur’an 25:72).
- Practical Advice:
- Abū Bakr al-Ṣiddīq placed a stone in his mouth to prevent excessive speech.
5. THE STOMACH
- Avoid consuming the unlawful (ḥarām) or doubtful wealth.
- Overeating leads to laziness, forgetfulness, and weak worship.
- Seeking unlawful wealth is building on a garbage heap.
- Examples of unlawful wealth:
- Usury (ribā).
- Fraudulent trade.
- Religious endowments misused for personal gain.
6. THE PRIVATE PARTS
- Guard your chastity, as Allah commands:
- “And those who guard their private parts” (Qur’an 23:5).
- Success in this depends on controlling the eyes, heart, and stomach.
7. THE HANDS
- Do not use hands to:
- Strike a Muslim.
- Take unlawful wealth.
- Harm creation.
- Write anything sinful.
- “The pen is one of the two tongues”.
8. THE FEET
- Do not use the feet to approach sin, oppression, or unlawful gatherings.
- Hadith:
- “Two-thirds of a person’s faith leaves him if he humbles himself before a wealthy tyrant” (Shuʿab al-Īmān).
Conclusion
- The limbs are bounties from Allah.
- Use them for His obedience, not disobedience, to avoid destruction in both this world and the Hereafter.
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Allah’s Mercy vs. Foolish Complacency:
- Do not misuse statements like “Allah Most High is All-Generous, Ever-Merciful” to justify sin or laziness.
- Such statements, while truthful, can brand a person as foolish if used to avoid effort or repentance.
- The intelligent person is one who “takes account of himself and works for what comes after death.”
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Wealth and Effort:
- Some desire wealth without working for it, saying: “Allah is All-Generous and to Him belong the treasures.”
- Such people resemble those who seek paradise without any struggle or effort.
- Allah Most High says: “Man will have nothing but what he strives for” (Qur’an 53:39).
- Actions of effort are key; “You are rewarded only for that which you used to do” (52:16).
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Relying on Allah’s Generosity:
- True reliance on Allah does not mean abandoning effort.
- Rely on Allah’s generosity while striving, for “whoever struggles in this world, will have the next as a reward.”
- The actions of the outward limbs are merely reflections of the heart’s qualities.
- If you wish to purify and rectify your limbs, you must purify your heart, as it is the source of all goodness or corruption.
- “If the heart is sound, the rest of the body is sound; and if corrupt, the rest of the body is corrupt.”
- Therefore, prioritize the heart’s rectification to ensure the purity of all your faculties and actions.
On The Blameworthy Qualities of the Heart
- The heart’s purification is difficult but essential to remove vices like envy, ostentation, and conceit.
- Envy: A severe form of miserliness that causes pain at others’ blessings.
- The Prophet ﷺ said: “Envy devours good deeds just as fire devours wood” (Abū Dāwūd).
- Envious people suffer endlessly; their punishment is severe both in this world and the next.
- True faith requires loving for one’s brother what one loves for oneself.
Ostentation
- Ostentation (riyā’) is a hidden form of associating partners with Allah (shirk).
- It is the pursuit of fame and admiration from others.
- On the Day of Judgment, one’s acts of worship performed for show will be rejected:
- Allah will say, “You wanted it for fame, and that is your reward” (Muslim).
- Scholars, warriors, and Qur’an reciters will all be questioned if they sought admiration from others instead of Allah.
Conceit, Arrogance, and Pride
- Conceit (ujb) is when a person glorifies themselves while looking down on others.
- Arrogance manifests as disdain for others, refusing advice, and believing oneself superior.
- The Prophet ﷺ said, “No one with an atom’s weight of pride in his heart will enter Paradise”.
- Remedies for pride include:
- Seeing others as better than yourself.
- Considering the blessings Allah gave others.
- Reflecting on one’s ignorance and shortcomings.
- Allah’s mercy and forgiveness are for those who repent and humble themselves.
The Narration of Mu’ādh Ibn Jabal
- Mu’ādh ibn Jabal narrates a lengthy hadith where the Prophet ﷺ highlights the severity of:
- Backbiting,
- Arrogance,
- Insincerity in worship.
- Recording Angels:
- Angels refuse to let the deeds of show-offs pass to the heavens.
- Allah curses such acts, and the angels echo, “Upon him is Your curse and ours!”.
- Practical Advice:
- Avoid speaking ill of others.
- Focus on one’s sins instead of finding faults in others.
- Ensure sincerity in deeds, avoiding worldly gains through religion.
The Greatest Evils of the Heart
- Love of this World:
- The Prophet ﷺ said, “Love of this world is the root of every sin” (Shu‘ab al-Īmān).
- This life is meant to cultivate for the Hereafter; excessive indulgence leads to ruin.
- Seeking Knowledge for Status:
- Sacred knowledge should be sought to purify the heart, not to compete or gain praise.
The Summary of Guidance
- The outward actions reflect the inward state of the heart.
- Protecting one’s limbs from sin requires rectifying the heart.
- The Heart’s Role:
- If the heart is sound, the body and deeds will follow.
- Purify the heart of pride, envy, and worldly love to attain closeness to Allah.
- The Beginning of Guidance lies in purifying the heart, performing obligatory deeds, and striving for sincerity.
Conclusion
- Engage in:
- Sincere worship,
- Rectifying one’s inner faults,
- Avoiding idle speech, gossip, and argumentation.
- The Ultimate Goal: Achieve gnosis (ma‘rifah) of Allah and build an afterlife of eternal success.