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On Refraining from Disobedience

  • The religion is divided into two parts:

    1. Refraining from disobedience (more serious and important).
    2. Performing acts of obedience.
  • True sincerity lies in abandoning one’s desires and evil appetites.

    • The true emigrant: One who abandons sins.
    • The true warrior: One who fights his passions.

THE SINS COMMITTED WITH THE LIMBS

1. GENERAL ADVICE ON THE LIMBS

  • Each part of your body is entrusted to you by Allah Most High.

  • Using these limbs to disobey Allah is the ultimate betrayal and ingratitude.

    • “Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is answerable for his flock” (Bukhārī).
  • On the Day of Judgment, the limbs will testify against you:

    • “Their mouths will be sealed, and their hands will speak to Us, and their feet will testify as to what they have earned” (Qur’an 36:65).
  • Seven gates of Hell correspond to sins committed by seven parts of the body:

    1. The eye
    2. The ear
    3. The tongue
    4. The stomach
    5. The private part
    6. The hand
    7. The foot

2. THE EYE

  • The eye is created to seek guidance in darkness, see the wonders of creation, and reflect on Allah’s signs.
  • Protect your eye from:
    1. Looking at someone marriageable (with lust).
    2. Looking at beautiful forms with a lustful gaze.
    3. Looking at a Muslim with disdain or arrogance.
    4. Seeking out the faults of others.

3. THE EAR

  • The ear was created to hear the speech of Allah, His Messenger, and the wisdom of the righteous.

  • Protect it from:

    1. Listening to falsehood, backbiting, and lewd talk.
    2. Hearing the faults of others.
  • Hadith:

    • “The listener shares [in sin] with the speaker” (Ṭabarānī).
  • If you use the ear for disobedience, what was meant as a blessing will turn into a reason for destruction.


4. THE TONGUE

  • The tongue is the most dangerous limb and causes the most destruction.

  • The Prophet ﷺ said:

    • “People are not thrown into Hell on their faces for anything more than the harvest of their tongues” (Tirmidhī).
  • Protect your tongue from eight calamities:

  1. Lying

    • Lying erodes trust and reputation.
    • “How despicable it is to lie!” Reflect on how you feel when others lie.
  2. Breaking a Promise

    • Breaking promises is hypocrisy.
    • If forced to promise, do so with caution and only if necessary.
  3. Backbiting (Ghibah)

    • Definition: Mentioning something about a person in their absence that they would dislike.
    • Backbiting makes you a wrongdoer, even if what you say is true.
    • Indirect backbiting is also sinful, such as saying:
      • “May Allah rectify him; I’m saddened by his actions.”
    • Qur’an:
      • “Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would truly despise that” (Qur’an 49:12).
  4. Argumentation and Debate

    • Avoid disputing unnecessarily; it creates arrogance and enmity.
    • Hadith: “Whoever leaves a quarrel while in the wrong, Allah will build him a house on the outskirts of Paradise; and if he leaves it while in the right, Allah will build him a house in the highest part of Paradise” (Tirmidhī).
    • Satan deceives by presenting argumentation as truth.
  5. Ascribing Goodness to Oneself

    • Avoid self-praise, for it reduces your esteem.
    • Allah says: “Do not ascribe goodness to yourselves; He is more knowing of the God-fearing” (Qur’an 53:32).
  6. Cursing

    • Do not curse people, animals, or food.
    • On the Day of Judgment, you will be held accountable for every curse uttered.
  7. Supplicating Against Creation

    • Do not pray against others, even if they wrong you. Leave the matter to Allah.
    • “The oppressed one prays against his oppressor until he takes his right”.
  8. Jesting, Ridiculing, and Mocking People

    • Mockery creates hatred and distances people.
    • “When they pass by idle talk, they pass by with dignity” (Qur’an 25:72).
  • Practical Advice:
    • Abū Bakr al-Ṣiddīq placed a stone in his mouth to prevent excessive speech.

5. THE STOMACH

  • Avoid consuming the unlawful (ḥarām) or doubtful wealth.
  • Overeating leads to laziness, forgetfulness, and weak worship.
  • Seeking unlawful wealth is building on a garbage heap.
  • Examples of unlawful wealth:
    1. Usury (ribā).
    2. Fraudulent trade.
    3. Religious endowments misused for personal gain.

6. THE PRIVATE PARTS

  • Guard your chastity, as Allah commands:
    • “And those who guard their private parts” (Qur’an 23:5).
  • Success in this depends on controlling the eyes, heart, and stomach.

7. THE HANDS

  • Do not use hands to:
    1. Strike a Muslim.
    2. Take unlawful wealth.
    3. Harm creation.
    4. Write anything sinful.
  • “The pen is one of the two tongues”.

8. THE FEET

  • Do not use the feet to approach sin, oppression, or unlawful gatherings.
  • Hadith:
    • “Two-thirds of a person’s faith leaves him if he humbles himself before a wealthy tyrant” (Shuʿab al-Īmān).

Conclusion

  • The limbs are bounties from Allah.
  • Use them for His obedience, not disobedience, to avoid destruction in both this world and the Hereafter.

  1. Allah’s Mercy vs. Foolish Complacency:

    • Do not misuse statements like “Allah Most High is All-Generous, Ever-Merciful” to justify sin or laziness.
    • Such statements, while truthful, can brand a person as foolish if used to avoid effort or repentance.
    • The intelligent person is one who “takes account of himself and works for what comes after death.”
  2. Wealth and Effort:

    • Some desire wealth without working for it, saying: “Allah is All-Generous and to Him belong the treasures.”
    • Such people resemble those who seek paradise without any struggle or effort.
    • Allah Most High says: “Man will have nothing but what he strives for” (Qur’an 53:39).
      • Actions of effort are key; “You are rewarded only for that which you used to do” (52:16).
  3. Relying on Allah’s Generosity:

    • True reliance on Allah does not mean abandoning effort.
    • Rely on Allah’s generosity while striving, for “whoever struggles in this world, will have the next as a reward.”

  • The actions of the outward limbs are merely reflections of the heart’s qualities.
  • If you wish to purify and rectify your limbs, you must purify your heart, as it is the source of all goodness or corruption.
    • “If the heart is sound, the rest of the body is sound; and if corrupt, the rest of the body is corrupt.”
  • Therefore, prioritize the heart’s rectification to ensure the purity of all your faculties and actions.

On The Blameworthy Qualities of the Heart

  • The heart’s purification is difficult but essential to remove vices like envy, ostentation, and conceit.
  • Envy: A severe form of miserliness that causes pain at others’ blessings.
    • The Prophet ﷺ said: “Envy devours good deeds just as fire devours wood” (Abū Dāwūd).
    • Envious people suffer endlessly; their punishment is severe both in this world and the next.
    • True faith requires loving for one’s brother what one loves for oneself.

Ostentation

  • Ostentation (riyā’) is a hidden form of associating partners with Allah (shirk).
  • It is the pursuit of fame and admiration from others.
  • On the Day of Judgment, one’s acts of worship performed for show will be rejected:
    • Allah will say, “You wanted it for fame, and that is your reward” (Muslim).
  • Scholars, warriors, and Qur’an reciters will all be questioned if they sought admiration from others instead of Allah.

Conceit, Arrogance, and Pride

  • Conceit (ujb) is when a person glorifies themselves while looking down on others.
  • Arrogance manifests as disdain for others, refusing advice, and believing oneself superior.
  • The Prophet ﷺ said, “No one with an atom’s weight of pride in his heart will enter Paradise”.
  • Remedies for pride include:
    • Seeing others as better than yourself.
    • Considering the blessings Allah gave others.
    • Reflecting on one’s ignorance and shortcomings.
  • Allah’s mercy and forgiveness are for those who repent and humble themselves.

The Narration of Mu’ādh Ibn Jabal

  • Mu’ādh ibn Jabal narrates a lengthy hadith where the Prophet ﷺ highlights the severity of:
    1. Backbiting,
    2. Arrogance,
    3. Insincerity in worship.
  • Recording Angels:
    • Angels refuse to let the deeds of show-offs pass to the heavens.
    • Allah curses such acts, and the angels echo, “Upon him is Your curse and ours!”.
  • Practical Advice:
    • Avoid speaking ill of others.
    • Focus on one’s sins instead of finding faults in others.
    • Ensure sincerity in deeds, avoiding worldly gains through religion.

The Greatest Evils of the Heart

  1. Love of this World:
    • The Prophet ﷺ said, “Love of this world is the root of every sin” (Shu‘ab al-Īmān).
    • This life is meant to cultivate for the Hereafter; excessive indulgence leads to ruin.
  2. Seeking Knowledge for Status:
    • Sacred knowledge should be sought to purify the heart, not to compete or gain praise.

The Summary of Guidance

  • The outward actions reflect the inward state of the heart.
  • Protecting one’s limbs from sin requires rectifying the heart.
  • The Heart’s Role:
    • If the heart is sound, the body and deeds will follow.
    • Purify the heart of pride, envy, and worldly love to attain closeness to Allah.
  • The Beginning of Guidance lies in purifying the heart, performing obligatory deeds, and striving for sincerity.

Conclusion

  • Engage in:
    • Sincere worship,
    • Rectifying one’s inner faults,
    • Avoiding idle speech, gossip, and argumentation.
  • The Ultimate Goal: Achieve gnosis (ma‘rifah) of Allah and build an afterlife of eternal success.